Joining the National Defence Academy
"What
do you mean, you want to join the NDA. You have lost your elder brother in the
Indo-Pak war and you want to follow him? Who will keep the name of our family
going? Forget it," his father had thundered when he had gone up to him and
said that he wanted to join the Army.
"But
Dad" he had begun to reply when his father cut him off with a simple
"I said, forget it. Don't even raise the topic again."
He
had turned to his mother for help. She motioned him to wait. Later she had
called him aside and said" Give me some time. I will bring your father
around." He had said that he was not too good in studies and preferred an
outdoor life, where he excelled in many games, all physical. Sure enough, his
mother got him the forms to fill and within a fortnight had convinced his
father that the Army was the right way to go. The Indian Union Public
Commission Service test was not too taxing and he felt confident of passing.
The results took two months and he passed. Soon thereafter, he had received the
call letter for an interview to be followed by the Selection Process at the
Services Selection Board at Dehradun. The SSB was easy as most of it dealt with
outdoor activities and leadership qualities. In the final interview with the
President of the Board, he was told he had done well and the fact that his
elder brother was a martyr had helped considerably. He could be sure of getting
the call letter to join the National Defence Academy at Khadakwasla in Poona.
The call letter came as expected and his father accompanied him from Puri all
the way to the NDA. Everything seemed so well organised that he felt that this
was the right vocation for the likes of him.
The
reception at the NDA was in
the Cadet's Mess, the floor of which was waxed so well that he could see
his
face on the tiles. There were three Officers sitting at three tables,
one each
for the Indian Navy, the Army and the Air Force. There were hardly any
formalities
to complete. It as all over in fifteen minutes and the Officer told his
father
very politely that his son was now with the NDA and would be trained to
become
a man in every sense of the word. He also advised him to leave as soon
as
convenient as the Cadets had many chores to complete once they reached
their
assigned Squadrons. The farewell was emotional, as both he and his
father
choked back their tears. Ultimately, his father left in the coach
provided for
the accompanying parents or guardians. He was told that he was to go to
Foxtrot
Squadron and an orderly was detailed to carry his regulation black
trunk, 40
inches by 24 by 20 and his holdall that contained his bedding. He
followed the
orderly who showed him around as they headed for Foxtrot Squadron. His
life would take a meaningful path as soon as he reached his destination,
Foxtrot Squadron.